I won't do something stupid and pointless like telling you not to cry or feel guilty — I'd be crying too, I suspect, and feeling rotten.
Still, if you can, remember that you didn't cause this, nor did you do anything that many other very good and loving pet people haven't done before you. And although it's horrid and frustrating to acknowledge it, if you don't have the cash to pay for medical procedures, that's the bottom line: no money, no procedure, and that's definitely not your fault.
What's more, you are taking steps to help her, and you love her very much. I'll keep your pretty little lady in my thoughts tonight along with you, my dear.
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Date: 2011-10-21 05:03 am (UTC)I won't do something stupid and pointless like telling you not to cry or feel guilty — I'd be crying too, I suspect, and feeling rotten.
Still, if you can, remember that you didn't cause this, nor did you do anything that many other very good and loving pet people haven't done before you. And although it's horrid and frustrating to acknowledge it, if you don't have the cash to pay for medical procedures, that's the bottom line: no money, no procedure, and that's definitely not your fault.
What's more, you are taking steps to help her, and you love her very much. I'll keep your pretty little lady in my thoughts tonight along with you, my dear.